by Rick Kahler

The possibility of mental decline is something no one wants to consider, but it certainly does happen. As you build financial resources for old age, it’s also important to take these steps to create safety nets to protect those resources from yourself if you experience your own mental decline.

After three decades as a financial planner, I’m seeing more and more clients reach, not just retirement, but their final years. An issue that becomes especially important at this stage of life is how to protect your financial resources from an unexpected threat, namely yourself.

One of my saddest professional experiences came several years ago when one of my long-time clients, a woman in her late 80s with no family and few close friends, abruptly fired me. Because Mary had no one else, I had helped her in many ways beyond the usual client/planner relationship and even reluctantly agreed to serve as her trustee and power of attorney in case she became incapacitated.

At what proved to be our final quarterly review meeting, Mary initially seemed confused. I was able to reassure her about the stability of her finances, and she seemed clearer by the time we finished. Three weeks later, I received a handwritten letter from her: “You have my finances in a mess. I can’t get to my money. You are fired.”

I was stunned. Yet ethically I was required to comply with her wishes by moving her holdings to another broker.

Several subsequent conversations demonstrated that Mary was suffering from periodic memory loss and delusion. Had she been disabled by a sudden accident or a stroke, I could have stepped in. Yet, because her decision to fire me was made at a time when she was arguably still competent, my hands were tied.

Since this experience, I have confirmed the wisdom of avoiding a potential conflict of interest by never serving as a trustee or power of attorney for a client. With the help of suggestions from several other planners, I’ve also learned some strategies to help you protect your assets from yourself.

One tool is to sign a statement authorizing your financial planner to contact someone you designate, perhaps a family member or physician, if the planner becomes concerned about possible irrational behavior. While this would not prevent you from firing an advisor, it would provide a method of discussing the issue and also involve another person in the decision.

Another possibility is to put your assets into either an irrevocable living trust or a Domestic Asset Protection Trust (in states that allows them) with someone other than yourself or your planner as trustee. As the beneficiary, you would have the power to fire the trustee, but concern about an irrational firing could be mitigated to some degree by having a corporate trustee. In addition, with a DAPT, the beneficiary would not have the power to amend the trust without the agreement of the trustee. This would give some protection against self-destructive choices by a beneficiary who was gradually losing competency. One disadvantage of this approach is cost, so it isn’t an option for everyone.

Perhaps the most important strategy is to create a contingency plan in the event of mental decline. It could include arrangements for your financial planner to consult with family members or other professionals such as physicians, social workers, and counselors. For those without close family members, the plan might authorize the financial advisor to call for an evaluation, by professionals you choose in advance, if your behavior appeared irrational. This team approach might alleviate fears about being judged incompetent by the person managing your assets.

The possibility of mental decline is something no one wants to consider. Yet it is as essential a financial planning concern as making a will. As you build financial resources for old age, it’s also important to create safety nets to protect those resources from yourself.

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About the Author

Rick Kahler, MSFP, ChFC, CFP, is a fee-only financial planner and author. Find more information at KahlerFinancial.com. Contact him at Rick@KahlerFinancial.com.

Reviewed September 2023